I know things are really difficult for you right now, deciding on whether you should wait for your boyfriend or not. I know you are torn, but are more drawn to the idea of waiting for him, hence the stress you are experiencing. It's not wrong to dream of a complete family. Weigh your decisions carefully, and really pray to God to give you the courage to do what you must do. Think of what will benefit you and the baby. It's hard letting go of the person you love, pero just imagine if you'll easily accept him in you and your baby's life, tapos undecided siya. There will be no 100% assurance na things will turn around 360°. Na eventually, magbabago na siya. I know dilemma mo rin ang trust. Please focus on your little angel for now. Pag lumabas 'yan si baby, I believe makakalimutan mo 'yung guy, and getting back with him will be your last priority. Ipapangalan mo sa 'yo ang baby. Don't allow him to pick the responsibilities he only want to be responsible for. Mahirap na sanayin ang lalaki na hahayaan mo lang siya sa kung anong gusto niya. Don't let him take you and your baby for granted. Sa situation mo, mas hirap ka talaga. Ikaw ang talo, kasi alam niya na kahit hindi niya inaayos yung sa inyo, nandyan ka pa rin para sa kanya, always available. If he's asking for some time to think about his new relationship, let him. But while he's on the process, let him feel what it's like with your absence. Malay mo doon siya mas makapag-isip. Di ba ganon naman daw yun. Madalas marerealize lang ng tao yung worth ng isang tao o bagay pag nafeel niya yung absence non. And while you are also taking a break from him, pray really hard na marealize niya ang mga bagay-bagay. Madali lang naman na i-adopt ng baby ang surname ng boyfriend mo kung sakaling makapag-decide na siya. But until then, don't expect, and don't rely on him. Ipa-feel mo sa kanya ang bigat ng pagdedesisyon if it's you and the baby, or his new relationship. That it's all or nothing for him. Kaya mo yan. Kaya niyo ni baby 'yan. God bless you, mumsh! 💕
Magbasa pa
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