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Hi dear.. I went through that too 😞 There was one night, she woke up every 15 minutes, and during the day, every 10-27 minutes. My daughter was scared for a few months, and it was also only me who could calm her by carrying/latching. Something that began to work at that point was using the zip swaddle/swaddle pod, putting her on her side in the cot, using one hand to hold her hands together (they’re in the swaddle), and then patting her back firmly with my hand cupped. This was used to calm her down and put her back to sleep without taking her out of bed. We also closed the room door, turned on white noise, etc to minimise disruption. I’ve been through it and it’s really hard, but I promise you that it gets better soon okay? And once baby hits 4 months, you can start sleep training/self soothing training. Your sanity comes back immediately once baby goes to sleep on her own.

It will get better. Babies are all different. My first and second just wanted to be held sleeping. We rock, dance and all. You just close your eyes, pray and do all by routine. Babies needs routine. Time goes really fast, my boys are now 5 and 2 and my 5 refuses to kiss me outside already. They grow really really fast. 5 yrs, 2 yrs seems soooo long but it is really fast. Now i am with third and I am done after this haha

Hey! Don't give up! My baby is almost 2 months old now & she get scared super easily too. My mom went EU yan seng and bought this 八宝散 and it works for my girl. You may consider to give it a try. And can be consumed on daily basis. Mine has been consuming that daily since she's 1 week old. And don't forget to swaddle. Swaddle day & night. Even they hates the swaddle (just like mine did), just swaddle only!

U can do this 💪🏻 hope it will be better soon. I also felt the same way till sometimes i got angry at my baby. Then i felt guilty cos my baby doesn't know anything other than cry. I will then calm myself first before continuing to soothe him. Even at 4 months now, he will need soothing but a bit more better than before.

I feel you. How about swaddling her or get a swaddling so she feel more secure? Babies need a lot of love, security and patience. Try asking your husband for help or someone you can trust. Or even engage a part time nanny so you can get some rest. Your baby need the best version of you!!!

I’ve been through the same thing as you too. Try intro to him chou chou or introduce sth for him/her to hug to feel a sense of security and familiarity. It will only get better. :)

Same as you... For the first 2-3months. I cry out every night. Try to avoid those slamming sound? And stopper or something? Actually I bought yao lan after 2-3 months

Baby easily startle by loud noises and own reflex. Did u swaddle? I use swaddle and pacifier my 3 month sleeps well. Now hardly need to carry anymore.

Will get better

Take care