feeling upset. it seemed that i no longer enjoyed & feel happy when i met up my bffs.. i'm not sure if im the one that is being too sensitive & petty.. or was it because we had grown up & have different views & thinking, no longer hit off as well as when we are younger. one of my bff gave birth on the same year as me, whereas the other is single. i got a bit offended previously when they told me I'm being protective over my LO which i don agree. now, they were asking if my LO is very clingy with me because I'm still breastfeeding. i do not have any good answers to reply them.. what does it mean by clingy.. arent babies supposed to be with clingy with their parents? feeling upset that it seemed impossible to have a proper conversation without me feeling hurt or turn off. Is it me & my hormones / character that makes me feel more emotional?

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i think it's kind of common especially everyone grows up with different mindset with changing environment and the friends that we mix around. We no longer meet as often as prior since everyone has their own family and work committment so at times one might feel friendship might drifted a little. I guess we just to have keep an open mind and don't take their words too seriously afterall you know best of what you are doing and that you are giving the best to your LO. So please go with your own heart. We don't have to rely on their views/opinions. Just take it as a pinch of salt and you will feel much better.

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Home Just Mums feeling upset seemed that i longer enjoyed feel happy when i met bffs im not sure if im that being too sensitive petty was because had grown have different views thinking longer hit off when younger bff gave birth same year whereas other single i got bit offended previously when told im being protective over lo which i don agree now were asking if lo very clingy with because im still breastfeeding i not have good answers reply them wh