Can you feel that you're selfish whenever your MIL take care of your child especially at night? I don't want my son to favour her more when he grow up. Please enlighten me :( I feel bad. Luckily I breastfeed my child so still they give him back to me. Now, he put him to her room. Its the first time and I don't want this to happen again. Please help me. Selfish first time mommy :(

Haha you're not alone! There are even times that I don't want anyone to look after my baby and that's the reason why I quit my job because I don't want a nanny or anyone to take care of him. But now, I have somehow adjusted. My kids are super close to my sisters but on the side of my in-laws, I'd still prefer that they don't spend time with my son for a long time for some awkward reasons as well. I guess it's normal for any mom to feel that way. :)