do u let ur MIL to take care ur NB?

Feel abit contradition, MIL want to handle NB everything from morning till night. Feel grateful that got a "nanny" help to take care everything but on the other side feel lesser bonding time with NB.... especially everytime im feeding my LO,my MIL wan to intervene, say she will do it. Even heard she said wan to carry my NB home to stay with her..currently NB still staying with me. what do u think?

Anonymous

Mum of a lil prince

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Special bonding with your nb is solely YOURS. This is d only time you cn bond and your mil CANNOT intervene. NEVER let your mil to bring home your nb. Jz no. And it is your right. Your baby is yours, not hers. Must say no.

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Anonymous

Nurturer of 3 Blessings.

5y ago

You can show appreciation in another form/gesture like order food or cake or something. But it sounds like she wanna control everything. of course im not saying like this cnnt that cnnt. i mean like those precious moment ones by like feeding etc, you must control that. like for myself, my mum had passed away so i had no choice but mil to take care. thr was some minus pts that made me pissed off, but im still grateful. i jz wished i could have more say at that time. so for my scnd baby which will due soon, i will say what i wanna say. But best is to talk to your husband abt how you wish he cn take care of your feelings first as youve waited 9 mths, feeling all sick and now that you wanna be the main carer for your baby. And how before marrige he would do anything for you, all the promises to make you happy. well im not sure if im being over but husband needs to understand your feelings.

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