SPG concern, but hoping to hear your thoughts and own experience.

Hello everyone.. future and first time mom here.. hope other mommies can share their thoughts about my concern.. would love to here.. I was identified of having a high risk pregnancy..i was suffering from on and off brown to reddish spotting for 6 months..my OB recommended me to have bed rest and take tocolytic meds to prevent from pre term labor..moreover, she discourage us (me and my husband) for doing making love.. so from 1st tri until 2nd trimester, no contact at all.. fast forward, i'm on my 31st week of pregnancy now, no more spotting, and thank God, my cervix is okay.. my OB then recommends us to have make love ( para daw po maprepare ung vaginal canal ko sa nalalapit na panganganak, at para magiging smooth daw ang daanan ni baby palabas). We tried making love, but upon doing it (SPG na po ito) my husband cannot fully penetrate mine kasi po sobrang sakit na.. ung feeling na 1st time.. for more than 6 months ba naman na walang contact. We really tried however, i cannot contain the pain, so we decided to stop kasi naninigas narin si baby...to the mommies here, are you still doing making love on your 3rd trimester? How was it going po? Meron po bang pain upon making love? Or should i say, napapasok po ba lahat upon making love? Sorry for these questions but your answers would really help me a lot.. hope you can give me some tips also about this concern.. Thanks so much! Have a great day!?

Honey Lyn Alisquio-Go

Biologist | Head of Laboratories(KDCI) | Excited to become a mum

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From 1st trimester to the last month, we still did. Nung last trimester medyo mahirap na, hindi naman masakit pero mahirap na makipag do kasi mabigat at mahirap na kumilos. Maybe hindi ka na sanay since ang tagal na ung last time ba nakipag make love ka.

Yan naman e kung kaya mo lang pwedeng gawin kung kaya mong tiisin mapapasok lahat yun😅pero pwede naman na hindi gawin yan maskit talaga pag third tri na samin dati ni hubby hindi lahat napapasok😅tinutulak ko sya kasi masakit talaga.

Cguro dry kya masakit. And may takot kayo pareho na mag pre term labor ka. Cmula mag spotting ako nung 17 wks, no more love making. Now I'm 29wks. Sad to say mejo nag iba ung pakikitungo nya sakin, even hugging wala. 😔

Anonymous

5y ago

Ganyan din ako active kami until 3months pero pdting ng 4th nwla dun n kc mejo malaki n tyan ko ndi naging clingy nako lalo nun lagi nako nangssbi na yakapin ako kc ndi nya na ko niyayakap. Pero kasi since lumaki ung tyan andun ung natatakot factor na baka maipit si baby haha iniingatan nia lang kayo mamsh. By 6months hanggang bago ko manganak may pasulpot sulpot naman na d. O gawa nadin ng kabusyhan that time pero bago ko nanganak nag d. O pa kmi 2days after nanganak nako. 2hrs super sakit la labour, 30mins sa delivery room nailabas ko na si baby :)

Sis you can try foreplay muna before the actual penetration. Samen kasi mas okay na almost tapos na ko bago si hubby kasi kapag nauuna sya, medyo masakit talaga. So far yun nagwowork samen pareho.

Leslie Fe Jaro-Ila

Soon to be mom of two

5y ago

true. ganon technique nmn

Siguro momsh pag mga 35 o 36weeks kana saka kayo mag contact ng hubby mo,kase naninigas agad tiyan mo.Saka try kayo ng ibang posisyon na mas komportable ka at huwag ka sagad😁

ldr kmi ni hubby and every first contact talaga masakit. either maglagay nalang ng lubricant or tiis lang talaga sa penetration and after ng sex mahapdi parin lalo na pag umihi

My OB did not advice me to have sex when I reached 32 weeks. Sperm cells can cause contraction according to her. Safe sex should be done@ 37 weeks by that time full term ka na.

Ako din, walang contact since nalaman namin na pregnant ako. I think hindi rin kaya ni hubby yung thought na may baby sa tiyan. Hehe. Nagwoworry sya baka maalog si baby.

Nako natakot na naman ako. Ldr pa man din kami ngayon. Took months bago ako nagalaw ng asawa ko sa sobrang takot ko sa madisvirgin. Matatakot na naman ako nian next time.

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Dog style po na pahiga ung position na comfy ako. I am already 38 weeks 1day and iniencourage ko si hubby na magdo kami para manganak nako 😅

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