do you ever have an argument with your spouse on issues about raising and disciplining kids? How do you reach a conclusion?

Yeah. All the time. Earlier, we always use dot fight over who is right and who is wrong, but with growing years, we give each other a chance. For example if my kid does something wrong, and my husband scolds him and I think that he is not right in scolding him, I do not budge. I do not interfere him that time and let him deal with the situation and later I tell him that he wasn't right. So, whenever one is dealing with the child, the other does not interfere. We talk it out later between us and give each other suggestions how we can deal with it in a better way. I think parenting is an evolving process and as you grow old, you become mature and you deal situation each time in a more sane way.