I feel you and I can't stand mummy's boy too! It's sweet when a son is thoughtful to his mum but when personal or simple decisions that can be decided between husband and wife yet have to consult his mum that is too overboard...
Or maybe you can place your baby in infantcare and insist to take care yourself at night so that husband will not keep on bringing up his mum's good deeds right infront of your face? For breastfeeding part, I would say take less expectation and ask yourself why you breastfeed? Is for the health of your baby's immunity right. Not everyone will understand why you do this so you must strongly understand yourself more than how other people understand you.
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