MIL Issues /hubby

Drama dram moments that irritates the hell out of me My hubby and I lost our son in still birth last year. It's bloody frustrating as hell when my mil keeps asking us to try to have another kid and to do it quickly. In my previous pregnancy I used to wear a pregnancy waist band to help elevate the pressure to my waist. She recently told me not to wear it for the next pregnancy. Like seriously, does tht affect? My husband just does nothing to shut her out. Now I'm currently expecting again and decide not to tell my parent in laws the good news. How do I dread announcing /my belly showing to reveal. What should I do and handle this?

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I think talking with your hubby is impt and getting him to understand how you feel and how he shld support you. My mom always told my hub that my mom entrusts me to him so he has to take care of me well and not disappoint her. In a way, you are entrusted to your husband and he shld respect how you feel and how you want to go abt this 2nd pregnanct (congrats btw!) It's never going to be easy dealing with PIL, but hiding from them to me is just going to make their "obsession" worse. My suggestion is to talk it out with your hub and find a way to break the news to PIL without hurting their feelings and to relay your feelings to them abt this 2nd pregnancy. After all, it is you who is pregnant, it is you who is going to give birth and take care of your child. Your sanity comes first! Much love and hugs and i hope everything will go well! ❤❤ stay healthy mama!

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7y ago

Thanks babe!!

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