Hi does you gals have problem and confict staying with in laws? Now having stayed together for 12 years I feel very depressed and just diagnosed with adjustment disorder issues staying with in laws.

It is not uncommon to have issues staying together with in-laws or even with any other relatives. Different living habits and values will lead to friction and become potential conflict. It is never easy adjusting to living with another person (even being with your spouse, it will take a lot of compromising and adapting to find the best arrangement). That being said, it is not impossible to have an amicable relationship. Communication is key. Hope things will be better for you! Take care and confide in your loved ones whenever needed.