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does anyone feel me? ung feeling na parang left out ka tuwng my gathering with your in laws? ganu kasi nafefeel ko dto sa bahay nla hubby ? minsan nggng teary eyed ako kpg magisa lang ako and hindi ko din masasabi ky hubby. I did my best not to mind it at all pero minsan sumasakit dibdib ko. hindi dn ako pinpansin ng dad ni hubby at ng hubbies ng 2 ate ni hubby. knkusap nmn ako ng 2 ate nya pro un tuwng si baby lg un topic. ok naman ako sa 2 bunsong kapatid ni hubby kasi mkrelate ako sknla. minsan iniisp ko na lang na "okay lang as long as mahal nla un anak namen ni hubby ok na ko". It feels like paramg ngng part lg ako dhl binuntis lg ako ni hubby kmbga dhl lg jn hindi na they want me to be part of their fam tlga ???

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Wear a thick skin, mommy. Try to initiate conversations with them esp with his mother and father. The kids will follow na if they see na super comfy na parenys nila sa'yo. For me, lahat naman ata ng father in law mahirap kausapin sa una. Find out kung anong interests nila and be involved. There's no harm in trying naman, dun mo din maweweigh if trip ka nila or not. If nafeel mo na uncomfortable sila then atleast nagtry ka and nagreach out ka sakanila para wala na din sila masabi na negative di ba. Pag ganon sila na may problem and di na ikaw. Cheer up, mommy 😊

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