Do you regret having children? Do u wish you had gone for an abortion instead?

I am now pregnant 6 weeks. Last month prior to IVF I was crying daily because everyone around me are having babies naturally. I have to take daily hormone injections to my butt till I pass 1st trimester in addition other things I don't want to talk about here. I would not go for another child after this but will definitely not regret what I went through to have a child.

oh my i ever regret to be honest its not because they not good for me its because i felt i am not a good mummy to them..then one day my little boy who is now 20 yrs old came to me an giv me a card draw by him..its a thank u and love u mama card thats when i realise and from there i tried my best to make them happy.Having kids is a blessing only we have to need patience and cooperation with our partner.

My first pregnancy was unexpected but I have no regrets at all. My kids are my life and I wouldn't trade them for anything else. They simply mean the whole world to me. ❤️ I believe it's still the values you hold that matter the most. Whether the pregnancy is planned or not, we have to realize that it's a gift from above. And that gift needs to be treasured and taken care of.

There are days that may seem extra long or challenging, maybe even weeks that seem that way. However I have never regretted having children. Countless women prAy to become mothers and I feel grateful that I have been blessed to be one three times over. Abortion is a quick fix to an emotional response to the pregnancy. At the end the repercussions may be more challenging to live with.

At times yes especially tough period ( especially when they are sick ) . But seeing my girls' smiles , makes it all worthwhile . At times yes when I've limited freedom . I can't go out as often as last time . But I treasure all the precious growing up moments with my girls . At times yes when shopping is buying their stuffs , not mine . But I enjoy buying actually .

Sometimes I miss my old life. I was a traveller when I was single and my work required me to travel a lot. I resigned after giving birth and focused entirely on raising my baby. Yes I miss travelling, but when I look at my son, it makes everything worth it. It may sound cliche, but he is the purpose of my existence right now and I wouldn't have it any other way. :)

This is a very sensitive question but I'll answer it anyways. Abortion is not the answer to any problem. At all! It may sound like the easy way out but it can lead you to complications. I never regret having children I maybe tired, frustrated and sometimes discourage and annoyed to them. But having a child of your own is something money & morality cannot buy.

Im not hypocrite but yes. At my age i really want a baby but when we found out that im pregnant im skeptical and sad as in! If there is post partum syndrome before giving birth i must say that i am dealing with it for almost nine months. But today everytime i look at her I must say i wasted my time on being sad in the past nine months.

No definitely a big no no.. Every child is a precious gift from god. They don't come easily to our life but when they come we should treassure. Personally i won't do abortion because every abortion is a murder to a unborn life . They might be unborn yet but they are still little precious life. No matter how bad they are we keep it !

Definitely NO, I have my first child of age 19 yes I know age of 19 is just the age of starting to clubbing, play, movies etc. I have no more that but I know as a mother I need to takecare of my children. Now my daughter is 17 she is in high school and as a part-time teacher, I am so glad that I choose to bring her to this world.