I am a working mum, no help from extended family /helper & send my child to ifc . Most of the time child will end up sick & have to stay home, and with the wfh situation, I am very lucky and happy to spend a lot of time with my LO at home. I find it very draining when I have to attend to my LO whole day & sometime it’s mentally draining & tiring that I will lose temper at her. (Hence, salute to all the sahm). So infant care/school give a good balance of time “apart”. I will feel more “recharged” & will miss my LO throughout the day and can’t wait to fetch her home to spend time together.
I don’t find myself missing her milestones , in fact I find that we build great bonds together. My LO likes going to school, and also like to be with us.
I feel happy with my decision although I have to work/cook/do household chores all at the same time & could be very tiring without any help from people. Luckily, my husband is very hands on & can help. So no regrets for me
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