TOXIC MOMMIES

DI KO NILALAHAT PERO HALOS LAHAT Kung may mga active na mommies pa dito na since 2019 pababa. Ang laki ng pinagbago ng mga iilang new mommies dito ang babastos sa totoo lang. Kung mapapansin nyo. Ang toxic lang ng iilan di katulad noon nakakasad lang. Yung tipong may nagtatanong lang ang barubal ng mga sagot kahit naman paulit-ulit nyo ng nabasa yung tanong may mga iilang mommies kasi na di pa alam at naalam nyo na, na dati ay di nyo din naman alam. Matuto pong rumespeto. Napaghahalataan mga new gen. 😏😕 Uulitin ko di ko nilalahat pero kung matamaan man di ko na kasalanan. Yun lang. Godbless pa rin sa inyo.

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then why you don't go back to years 2019 ???? or else, make a new group to add all your bath mates from 2019 to down years??? because your saying is. from 2019 , all mummies here is perfect, and the new generation. is not, then BASTUS.. how can they?? or we?? that's why they made this app, so that we can ask anything we want to know.. why?? they made the APP for just asking NOTHiNG ????? or just to ASK your OPiNiON, if how's the New generation?? ¿??? no right?! You just only LETTING people know here that your an OLD MEMBER here! that's the FACT you want to let us know.. we don't care if you're al old 2019 here! if you don't want the POSTs from others then you just better a SIDE!! as long as the APP didnt comment anything from POST theres nothing wrong with that. ohh yeah! don't clean yourself, if your member in this app, you BASTOS too..

Magbasa pa
2y ago

Hello mi ... I felt dizzy after I read your response. Pasensya ka na ha? If wayback 2019 may mga mommy na nag-compare sa mga mommy noon at ngayon na mga bago. Kasi sa generation namin? RESPECT is a must & we were taught how to clearly communicate with other people & voice out what needs to be called out, I salute this mommy who posted this coz, not everyone is like this. I read silently here, comment as much as I can & help others soon to be mommies. But? you? I was just concerned about what good manners you will introduce to your little ones. Read carefully wag bira ng bira kasi. It doesn't make any sense.☺️

I agree that we should be kind. That is a basic internet (life) etiquette. Kung hindi natin gusto yung tanong, or triggered or whatever, then we can always just keep on scrolling. There's no need to stop by just to leave a nasty comment, at ni hindi man lang sinagot yung actual na tanong 😅 Basta isipin natin before we comment: "Is this something that I'd actually be saying if this person is in front of me, face to face?"... It's easy to be mean and nasty online kasi there's little to no consequences but still, let's choose to be kind and just keep on scrolling if we must ☺️

Magbasa pa

Akala ko ako lang nakapansin ☺️ Joined #tAP last 2020 during pandemic napakasarap magtanong dito posting ng hindi naka anonymous kasi ang approachable ng mga mommies tapos yung mga topic very helpful. Kapag may tanong ka madaming sasagot ng maayos. I came back this month kasi Im preggers again hehe at nanibago ako sa paraan ng mga ilan dito kung hindi lalaitin ang nagtanong, pinipilosopo nung iba. Hindi ko po nilalahat. On the bright side, may mga mommies padin na handang mag advice magbigay ng ideas. Kudos sa mga mommies na kind hearted at hindi judgemental ❤️

Magbasa pa
2y ago

Same po, dati ang ingat nila sa mga words na ginagamit nila. Ngayon diko alam eh.

joined last 2022,1st baby ko kase did research thru google or youtube pero as a 1st timer preggy noon lito ako sa lahat mas gusto ko pa din ang sagot ng mga real mommies na naka experience tlga. Got bashed dahil wala daw kwenta ang tanong ko. Sinabe pa saken na "do the math" simula non natamlayan na ako magtanong. And now 4 mos na baby ko. Hindi na ako ngtatanong o minsan nlang ako sumasagot. Binabasa ko nalang ung description ng daily growth ni baby tas mag out na ako sa app. Helpful naman tong app lalo na kapag sa search tab nalang ako naghahanap. Mas okay pa don kesa magtanong.

Magbasa pa
2y ago

So sorry for your experience mamsh! Hugs! So sad may mga mommies dito na makapag komento akala mo kumare nila yung nagtatanong, though di naman sila obligado sumagot pero sana kung sasagot or magkokomento choose words wisely, yung di makakadagdag sa stress! 😀

TapFluencer

Hi miiii .. Nothing's wrong asking questions naman & it's nice na may mga ganitong app to extend our tips for soon to be mommies out there. I just hope whatever the concern respects each others opinion & sa mga mommies na kindda rude magiging mommies na kayo or mommies na kayo you should set a good example with your kids. How can they have a good future ahead of them kung tayo as an adult doesn't know how to respect other people. Sana magsilbi tayong magandang ehemplo sa mga susunod na henerasyon na parating.☺️

Magbasa pa
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Hello. Member since 2020. True yan. I remembered, receiving a notif about someone commenting on the answer I answered in year 2020, ang sagot ng new gen "Nagmamagaling naman." 😅🤣 yung original question kasi nung nag post na-edit na, kaya hindi umangkop sa answer ko, kaya ending dinelete ko na lang yung answer 😅🤣 Pero nuon pa naman talaga may mga users na Highblood mas madami nga lang ngayon 🤷🏻‍♀️ esp ngayon na yung mga OG members or moderators hindi na rin active.

Magbasa pa

I think sa time kasi now, mas madali na mag research. I get it na di naman dapat harsh sumagot, but since we have easier ways to do research, gawin natin ito. There are questions na sense lang ang need but hindi ginagamit kaya siguro may triggered. Meron super easy to search to get answers at once pero mas nag post pa. Ayun..But I get it. We all have to be kind. :)

Magbasa pa
2y ago

Try to search muna. Yung iba kasi, super passive na. That won't help long time. Tanong agad pero madami naman na makikita about it galing reputable articles/sites. :) Magiging dependent na masyado yun next time.

I agree with you mommy. Sana meron rin pong way na mareport yung rude and disrespectful member dito. In our pregnancy journey, we need comforting words not toxic comments. We have differences sa pagbubuntis and some mommies are very sensitive/emotional. Just like me, I'm a first time mom at 30 so I need advice or additional information din from other mommies out there. Just saying.

Magbasa pa
2y ago

good to know. 😀

That is why bihira ako magtanong, magshare at magsagot o magbigay ng opinion dito. Ang harsh kasi nung iba sumagot at mangpuna. Kanya kanya naman ng opinion and experiences to share kaso madalas nakakaoffend yung ibang mga replies. First time ko to use this app and first pregnancy ko din. Minsan eto pa nakakastress sakin. Anyway, the app is really good.

Magbasa pa
2y ago

Mas madalas pinipilosopo. Pwede naman sanang sagutin in a constructive way or mas nice as possible. Pero minsan para ipaparamdam pa sayo na ang tang* mo o kulang ka sa common sense. Nakakalungkot. Kaya ginagawa ko na lang guide itong apps. Sa mga articles, binabasa ko na lang. Pero dito sa community, bihira na ako makipag engage.

Yun iba big deal agad sa kanila pati un mga birthclub na may naliligaw na iba birthclub nagtatanong lang naman. Imbes magbigay ng encouragement at motivation masakit pa yun mga sinasabi mas ok i ignore o wag n lang mag comment. May iba iba pinagdadaanan un pregnancy journey ng bawait isa. Mas ok maging mabuti at umunawa na lang.

Magbasa pa
2y ago

True to. Nabasa ko yung isang post dito about dyan sa birthclub na yan. Sinabihan na agad ng bobo yung mga nagpopost sa September birthclub na di naman daw September ang due date. Grabe lang. What if di naman alam nung nagpost yung about sa birthclub kasi nga bago pa lang dito.