I think it's important for her to discuss with her husband & also consider if the couple's parents are supportive to this decision. Apart from the adoption procedures, she might also face some pressure from the family elderly who might not be receptive to this decision. Therefore, the husband's support is essential for the wife. Adoption is a major decision & decision for life. Do plan & consider carefully before proceeding.
Firstly the couple and the entire family should be convinced about the adoption. A child needs to be loved and accepted by the whole family. Once adopted he should not feel like an outsider. Adoption is a long procedure in our country. The adoption agencies make sure that the child is going to be taken care of well.