Nanny hogs the baby

My confinement nanny has not been allowing me to carry and bond with my baby saying that it's for our own good that we don't carry him so much, and that we don't know how to put him to sleep. He is 5+ weeks old now. He seems to have a preference for her and everyday I feel like he doesn't know I'm his mother. Honestly feeling quite depressed but my husband doesn't get it. Sigh.

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my confinement lady didnt let me carry and kept asking me to rest when i had massage session (whole body is with oil). but any other time that im without oil, i can carry her. maybe u can tell her that u wanna learn how to care for baby esp when she is gonna be gone soon.. etc. we took over 1 week before she left as baby started to prefer her as well

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