I totally understand your concern about wanting to breastfeed and still have the support of a confinement nanny. It's definitely possible to have the baby cot in your room and still have the nanny help with burping, changing diapers, and putting the baby to sleep after feeding.
You can discuss your preference with the nanny and come up with a plan that works for both of you. For example, you can take care of the breastfeeding part, while the nanny helps with the other tasks. Communication is key, so make sure to have an open discussion about your expectations and needs.
It's great to hear from other mommies who have been in similar situations and can share their experiences and advice. I'm sure you'll find some helpful tips from them. Good luck, and I hope everything works out well for you and your little one!
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