Do you believe in giving your all or 100% to your partner? Or is it the other way around, leave something for yourself?

For me, self-love should always be the first thing. Of course you should give 100% to your spouse, but that doesn't mean you should leave nothing to yourself. Another 100% goes to you. Even though you're made as one, still, you are different individuals who each have different wants and needs. I guess if you know how to give love to yourself, you can give love to others more efficiently. It's a matter of "you cannot give what you don't have"