Just to ask. When your relatives die or having some serious medical conditions do u inform ur pils to let them know? My father ask me to inform my pils that 1 of my relative just died. He said is a must because my pils also related. I told him "why must i inform them when its my family matters? Its not like my they need to know everything about me. As if they will tell me about them also." He replied "why u talk like that? U must respect ur pils and let them know." Wtf? After all its my family matters not them. I dont think its something that is very proud to announce. I mean, u dont have to tell "everyone" right?

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It depends on how close both sides are, and whether you want to tell them or not. I'd say to tell out of respect, especially if both sides are close - so that there won't be any misunderstandings in future! If you're not comfortable with sharing, or if it's a distant relative - then it's up to you :)

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Home Random Talk askwhen your relatives die having some serious medical conditions inform ur pils let them know father ask inform pils that 1 relative died said must because pils related i told him why must i inform them when family matters not like need know everything about if tell about them replied why talk like that must respect ur pils let them know wtf after family matters not them i dont think something that very proud announce i mean dont have