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Same sex? I'd more so forgive if was different sex, and I'd be grateful for her to talk to me about it, knowing she trusted me. But if she sleeps with someone same sex, it's no more a case of cheating, but of sexuality. Why would you spend your life with a person you know is gay? I'd just move away to keep things simple. All you can do is think through it. If you were at her position, would you accept your man to sleep with another man? It's gonna be more awkward than wtf situation. Think through it

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This question reminds me of a line from a tv show "it's not cheating if the plumbing's the same". Personally, cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter who it's with. I'd be devastated and not likely to forgive him any easier. In fact, I reckon it'll be much more embarrassing if people found out, it's as if I was so bad as a partner, he had to turn the "other" way.

Of course not. Cheating is cheating, whatever the gender. In fact, I would probably be more pissed off that he found someone of his own gender more attractive than me! The baseline is, I'd feel hurt regardless of whether the 3rd party was male or female. It's the betrayal of trust that kills the relationship.

Be it same gender or not, the most important thing is, he cheated. There is no way for me to forgive him as there won't be a day that I will stop thinking about it. If such a thing can happen once, it is bound to happen the second time. So, definitely no exceptions.

prashu - does that mean you are absolutely fine if your partner had sex with someone of the opposite gender? i am quite amused and confused at your use of the term 'same sex' here - how does it make anything different?

Ermmmm.... I cant say if i will forgive or not. But ill definitely freak out. Infact i cant even imagine how one would feel. Im so sorry i can oy try to emphatic to how you must be feeling. Big hugs.