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Anyone feels that way when ur newborn cries at night?

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Yes, I went through same..got pregnant at young age I didn't know a thing about babies.. I was so tired , lack of sleep, stress made me angry at my baby and it made by BP high.. but I really felt guilty after that cause that's a baby and is new to the world they need us ,there only way to speak to us is by crying.don't worry dear you will get through this..now my LO is 3 months..she sleeps through night..and it's now relaxing I get to sleep too.just few weeks you have to endure it...embrace the baby...relax ..all the best ☺️

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Yes, I feel you. I was frustrated when my newborn cries because I don’t know what she needs/want. But I feel more love for her because she needs to be comforted. As a newborn, she needs a lot of love, care and comfort as she is new to the environment. Try to get your spouse to help too. It can build and encourage bonding too.

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5y ago

My spouse has been doing everything he could but somehow the cries frustrates me

I used to feel that way too until I kept reminding myself that crying is the only way they can express themselves. He's totally helpless and is dependent on you for his needs and well-being, hence the crying... It's not easy, I still need to remind myself of this everyday. Jiayou, mummy!

I cried almost everyday for the first week due to lack of sleep at night for feeds ahhaha. But as long as you know how to soothe your baby be it ; pacifier, bottle, latching. Its okay be okay! :)

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Not angry but tired. Crying’s all baby can do to express him/herself. Not their fault. My fault for not being able to meet the needs.

Actually i just feel more tired than being angry. i just look at his lovely face and all that is gone

When baby cries non stop and couldn't be consoled. Ill leave to cool down and let hubby carry.

I understand . But whenever I look at him , I felt so much love and all tat gone .

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Yes, normal. It does get better as they grow older so hang in there!

Yes of course It’s normal You are tired too Hang it there

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