Anybody has this issue where ur LO prefers your husband over you, for everything including both in times of play and comfort? My LO is 9 months, will look for her dad actively and wants her dad to carry, and will quieten down when crying once her dad carries her but pushes me away and cries though I try to play with her and spend more time with her. Feeling sad about this:(
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Daughter usually prefer Daddy i think it’s normal. Don’t be too sad about it, she will slowly value ur presence 😊
s baby girl ko ang gsto laging aq,,ky minsan di ko n nagagawa yng mga gawain bahay,,pag binibigay k s papa umiiyak,,
my boy only needs me in the morning & afternoon. once his dad comes home from work, he immediately go to my husband
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My girl used to be like that, but she always smiled at once she sees me .. and made things really easy
My #2 lo. No choice cause my #1 is very dependent on me so I don't have chance to bond alot with #2.
verymuch like my 9 months old baby boy... he's a xeroxcopy indeed of his father
Me! My girl is daddy's girl. I have my free time too.
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Has this always been the case or is it a recent phenomena?
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7y ago
It became more pronounced recently as she's becoming more aware of her surroundings n preferences. Previously she was younger n wasn't really choosy about anything or anyone, but now she starts to be aware of strangers n her fave ppl in her list. Is this a phase, n will it pass? I just hope it doesn't affect our future relationship n closeness. She prefers her daddy n grandmother so much over me, especially when she's in a cranky mood she just wants either of them n cries n struggles when I try to carry her.