Anybody has this issue where ur LO prefers your husband over you, for everything including both in times of play and comfort? My LO is 9 months, will look for her dad actively and wants her dad to carry, and will quieten down when crying once her dad carries her but pushes me away and cries though I try to play with her and spend more time with her. Feeling sad about this:(

It became more pronounced recently as she's becoming more aware of her surroundings n preferences. Previously she was younger n wasn't really choosy about anything or anyone, but now she starts to be aware of strangers n her fave ppl in her list. Is this a phase, n will it pass? I just hope it doesn't affect our future relationship n closeness. She prefers her daddy n grandmother so much over me, especially when she's in a cranky mood she just wants either of them n cries n struggles when I try to carry her.