Ano ang best way para maiwasan ang paglilihim ng anak niyo na may boyfriend/girlfriend na sila?
wag po masyadong mahigpit at ipaliwang po na hindi masama mag bf o gf basta ilagay sa tama. best communication po. ako as mother of 3 boys. panganay ko 10yrs na pinapaliwanag ko na sa kanya kung ano mga consequences ng pag gf . π open communication dapat.
Open communication and trust. It's very important that your child trusts you with his personal life at the same time, he knows that you also trust him. That way, it would be much easier for you to open to each other no matter what the scenario is.
Be friends with your daughter, yung tipong best friends. Based on personal experience, malaking tulong din na hindi taboo ang mga topic na love life sa loob ng bahay. Isa yan sa mga topics/kwentos namin kapag dinner time sa bahay noong college ako.
Teens hide things from their parents kapag alam nilang mapapagalitan sila. So be friends with your child first, don't invalidate her feelings and her experiences. Make her feel safe to open up to you. ^
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Always spend quality time sa mga anak po. Earn their trust and be their bestfriend. Kailangan laging open ang communication po sa mga anak. Maganda po na may mga regular wholesome family activities po. π
good communication po. share some stories with them during teenage days and bonding po. para po di sila mahihiya na magopen sa inyo. :) tapos let them feel po na open sila magshare. :)
Constant,deliberate and consistent communication with them is the key. Yung araw araw na pangangamusta and listening to them will make a big difference in making them open up.
Ittrain ko na agad yung anak ko na maging open sa amin ng nanay nya. Also, yung mga password nya sa mga cp at social media accts nya ay alam namin dapat para sa transparency.
Transparency and open communication is key. If the child feels he or she can freely speak her mind at home and you are open to listen then there's no reason to keep secrets.