Baby gender

It annoys and hurts me so much each time my in-law family discuss about baby gender. This is my 3rd pregnancy with a boy and a miscarriage. It didn't come easy especially with PCOS conditions. Their family has been wanting a girl as the family didn't have any granddaughters. They can go the extend to say nasty stuff like.. "if this one also a boy, don't need to get anything for him. Just pass down all the stuff and use back the old ones can already." My mil even said "If this one is a boy, I won't go to hospital to visit." As if I can choose the baby gender, getting pregnant was already a problem, keeping the pregnancy healthy is also another worry. Always got to hear stuff comments from the in-law family. Sigh.