After discovering that your husband is cheating on you. He has realized his mistake and insists on change and has regretted his mistake. If you have decided to stay, how did your marriage survive?

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Marriages often become so encumbered with life (kids, career, household responsibilities) that the couple loses that lovin’ feeling, that way they felt before they married. So the ga-ga feeling and the exhilaration of doing crazy things spontaneously is very appealing in these extramarital flings. If you’re the harmed party, consider couples counseling before filing for divorce on the one hand, or pushing yourself to forgive on the other. Give your unfaithful partner the chance to make reparations and earn back your trust over time. Give yourself and your relationship the opportunity to heal and grow stronger. This is slow and arduous work, no question. But if both of you are committed to healing, your marriage is worth the effort. It's not easy but let out steam by talking it out. For me, anger will channel into words hence I will write poetry to express my disappointment. Everyone has their own ways of stress relief so stay strong!

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First of all, I would fix my attitude and behaviours. Because the reason why he cheated probably came from my mistakes. Maybe he didn't like the way I treated him and he turned for someone else who he thought could understand him more than me.

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Cheating is an act that I believe most men can not do without because of their inconsideration and lack of strength and will to keep their pants up. As a woman and someone that happens to always commit myself to my relationships I have been heartbroken quite a few times by cheating partners but in my last relationship I devised that I had had enough and badly needed to catch my fiance in the act. I searched online and this name kept on coming up by ex clients who gave awesome recommendations so I immediately reached out to them and decided to give a try to get the heavy burden of suspicion off my mind. I never knew that a phone could be hacked without having physical access with it, all this hacker asked for were a few information on my partner and he showed me PROOF immediately he got into the phone. I immediately paid and got everything that my fiance had been hiding, he was having an affair with 2 other women which was sickening I must say.. I will be nice enough to give you this hacker’s details to anyone who needs the services. thomasgonzalez125atgmailDOTcom

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since u have decided to stay then work on ur marriage like communication, bonding. Going to places where u both always go to or explore new places tog. I would openly asked y he strayed. It must be the void feelings that he had that other woman could come in easily. Even if u have children, do make yourself available once a week for a date tog. Hub comes first, marriage is impt only when a couple is in love. Talk about things other than work and children. Laugh at silly things.

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I would only stay on if we had kids and that is contingent on him agreeing to attend marriage counselling and proving himself to me. Honestly, if this happened when we're dating, I'd have no qualms about walking away. But marriage, especially if there are kids in the picture, would compel me to give it another shot.

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Forget about the past. Put him under commitment for the present and future. If he does it again consider it’s the time to leave