Actually my husband left his job before 3 years n he started his own work but still he is struggling even we all struggling because of this our love life is almost ended he is so Stressed our financial conditions r not so good,I never think for extra things like movie or outing, he is always in tension but in my stage I have physical needs which is unfulfilled so I get angry n we start fighting,how come I complete my physical desires

Hi, I so understand this situation as a very close relative of mine went through a same phase in life and since, I was so close to them, I too, was disturbed because of the discord husband and wife were going through. But, you know the best part in that couple that saved their marriage and brought back their happiness was the woman's positive attitude towards life. No doubt, she had her days of feeling low and she would cry on the phone talking to me, but overall she maintained the stance that all will become fine, and finally all did become fine. So, you keep your calm. Bad times do not stay forever. Things going to be fine with you all as well, and it is just a matter of time. Put yourself in your husband position and try to feel the pressure that a man has in this patriarchal society where if man is not earning he is supposed to make feel good for nothing. So, he must be going through a whole lot o stress right now which even if want to forget for a while he would not be able to. I think, be by his side during this testing time. The things that you can do right from your side to make him feel good about himself, do those. And when he would know that there is someone who understands him so well and is supporting him in his every step, he would himself shower that love which is missing in your life. In this time of trial, I think your husband himself would be longing for love, just that he doesn't know to express it because there is so much of pressure on him. I suggest, give both of yourselves time and things will change for good.