Separation Anxiety of Toddler
4 months yung baby ko when I had to stop breastfeeding due to medication for gallbladder. It may harm his brain so I was told I had to stop bf. 6 months sya when I started working again. Some people says my child may have separation anxiety because pahirapan ang pagpasok ko sa work, kahit naliligo ako, kailangan nakikita nya ko so he won't cry. Kumakain ako, nagttoothbrush, naghhugas ng pinggan, karga ko sya kasi nagwawala sya talaga if not, then kahit 6 months lang sya kakausapin ko sya ng masisinsinan na I had to work anak, wait mo lang si mommy then we'll play. Pag-uwi ko nagpplay talaga kami, magluluto lang ako saglit na again karga sya (pero pag prito, yung byenan ko ang taya hehe), we also dance ng anak ko para makabawi. So kahit taon na kong nagttrabaho, basta nasa paningin nya na ko he doesn't want to be held by anyone but me. Some says he's suplado kasi ayaw nya magpaakap o karga sa iba, so magppoop ako sa cr kasama sya, hugas pinggan karga sya, iihi, maliligo na bukas anh pinto at nakaupo sya nkatingin sakin. As he grow older and I'm still working, ganon pa rin, now that he's a toddler, sabay kami naliligo pag wala akong pasok π Si mama ko na ang kasama ko sa bahay, so after ko manggalinh sa work sya na lagi sa gawaing bahay (she insisted) basta ako bahala sa anak ko. Maybe thats why kahit nagwwork ako, di lumayo loob nya sakin, ako lang gusto nya hehehhee. Until now that he's 3, naghuhugas ako ng pinggan (if wala ang mama) nakatayo sa tabi ko, he'll wait until we're able to play. Sometimes its exhausting because I want to rest or just scroll thru my phone pero he will feel sad e. When I'm mad naman, he will tap my shoulder and will calmy say "mommy, mommy its okay, its okay. Are you okay? Are you happy?" Sweet diba?