Would you rather go for a short getaway to neighboring countries (with a toddler along) over the weekend or go for a romantic dinner night out for 2 to celebrate your wedding anniversary? I am a ftwm so weekends are very precious to me

Nearby with the kids if you think you'll miss them. Make precious memories with them and see them interact in a new setting :) but if you and your hubby need a break to reconnect and have down time to yourselves, the latter works as well. So depends on what you need at the moment!