Me too. These days I keep on shouting to my toddler cause she dont listen to me sometimes. And I felt guilty after that.
I believe it is normal, as at the end of the day all of us are tired from work And when our kids don’t listen to us, we will scream at that hoping they’ll listen to us and behave properly
Take a deep breath and take a quick break even 2-3 minutes to settle yourself. Our lo can pick up our mood and emotions and mirror it back to us. I can relate, being a single mum myself. Get into a calm zone and then interact with your lo. You will see how different and better your interaction with her and her interaction with you.