No supporting village 😆

I am in similar situation as you . I feel what matter the most is how your husband treat you and the child as your husband will be the one with you, not your parents or in laws. As for the baby, what matter most is parents dote on the child. Grandparents are secondary . I know it can be very upsetting but I already see passed it . What matter most to me is how my hubby treat me, and how we treat our baby.

Hmmm, I think it’s okay. My parent and in laws didn’t do much during my pregnancy either. But they help a lot when baby is out. And I’m okay with it. I wasn’t really bothered with all the pregnancy stuffs either. Didn’t eat tonics or supplements or extra nutritious stuffs. So wasn’t really bothered by all these.

Hey! For me, I am luckier as I have supportive parents but My in-laws and my husband’s relatives are horrible and I got really upset but it’s worse when I gave birth because they can’t be bothered about my baby as well. It’s okay, at least you have a nice hubby so just Ignore ok :) jia you!!

Hi mummy, I think there’s good and bad! We have mummies that complain that mil take too much control and want to raise the baby🤣 I think most important is a supportive husband!!

Dear mum, people are different. They might not help you. But I see you as lucky mum. because you have such a helpful husband.

my in law are like that. after baby come out want to take my baby away as if is their baby no one can carry or touch