My wife is very hot tempered and she like to hit me when she lose her temper. She will dig her fingernail into my skin and sometimes she will slam my head against the wall. I don't want to hit her back. I love her. I believe she loves me too. How can I calm her down. And stop her from abusing me like this.

hey dats gd that u dun hit her. I like that. I would strongly encourage you to talk to her. Make her feel that you care and you are there for her. Ask her if something is bothering her?? Like Work , Friends, Family, Any childrens , Personal, Health n etc?? See how you can help her out?? I hoped things will be good ok. Cheers.