Chill honey!!
I been a mom for 5 years.
I always settle two kids during mealtimes before gulping down my food aft feeding them. You can slowly train your 8mo to self feed. While they self feed, you can feed them spoonfuls too. Yes it gets messy, But once they gets the hang of eating themselves, it gets easier. hang in there ok?
Same as you,
my husband never bothers helping me to feed my boys.
My family / inlaws too.
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