Mil keep comparing last time and modern time

just zone it out. Just smile and continue doing what's best in your way. MIL/parents are like that. comparing past and present. they think they are better than us cause they've been through it. but we just need to be strong not personally take it cause we are new to parenthood. there's no right or wrong answer.. the moment you learn to just "ye kan" to whatever they say, you will be less affected. (;