Having sex after giving birth

6 to 8 weeks, get your gynae to confirm when it is okay since your cervix has to be closed to reduce the risk of infection. You need lubricant to help. Usually we put her on the bed and build a "wall" made of blankets or just put her on her changing table with a mobile so she is distracted. Daddy and me do not like her staring. Otherwise if baby is asleep, try to do it as quietly as possible in other position that does not require too much shaking of the bed lol