When my 3 year old is up to something careless.. like she might be dangling on her bicycle almost near table... n if I raise my voice asking her not to do it.. she responds saying. Give me a hug.. Instead of saying ok .n that makes me all the more irritated. If I do hug her. I can rest assure in few minutes she will be up to something. . Again the same pattern. . If I raise my voice ..she will say hug me . So I really get very irritated n raise my voice even more. . But what do I do about this. ? Plz do suggest.