What whould you choose, settle with an immature-irresponsible-mamas boy husband just to give your child a complete family? or live alone with your kid as a single parent?

I would try to change the mama's boy first -- if he can prove himself to me then I wouldn't mind waiting for him to be a great father to my son. But if he can't, then I'd walk away. At the end of the day, I'll do what's best for my baby.