What's the most hurtful thing your spouse has said to you?

My husband has scream at me that I am fat lazy bit$+ I am pregnt homeschooling 4 children, do chores and cook him foods. He says this when I can't find the remote or when he says I help in the wrong way. I'm useless and I don't work as hard as he does. He is chef and works 13 hour 6 days a week. I work 7 days a week 24 hours a day. I don't get to come home and relax. Home is my job and it never stops. He does nothing with kids. I give him his soda all night, bring him everything he needs, bring him robe and wipe down feet. I love to help but I want to feel appreciated not to feel unworthy of love.