What do ftwm do when your lo is sticky with your helper? I let my lo sit on walker, he will straight go find the helper instead of my family members. But the main caregiver isn't the helper.. when I carried him, he doesn't want anyone..

I guess it is normal to feel pangs of imbalanced feelings when we see our babies closer to other people like helper or mother in law. But quite surprised that the helper is not the main caretaker yet your baby sticks to her. Maybe your helper plays with him a lot? Babies tend to like the people who can entertain them and usually this will not be the mommy who is stressed up with all the cleaning up and chores. I recall I preferred my dad to my mom when I was young Coz my dad always played with us and hardly scold us. My mom is the discipline mistress at home and is tired from the chores. But when I grow up I became closer to my mom. Moms will always be moms, the bond is strong. Don't feel emotional too much, am sure he loves you a lot and even more when he grows older :) for now isn't it good he sticks to others? Then you have more time for yourself, I sometimes wish my gal is not sticky to me Coz I need a life too.