What do ftwm do when your lo is sticky with your helper? I let my lo sit on walker, he will straight go find the helper instead of my family members. But the main caregiver isn't the helper.. when I carried him, he doesn't want anyone..

actually i don't quite understand what u are upset about if when u carry him he doesn't want anyone? i think that it is totally normal because he is being looked after by ur helper and feels his needs being met by the helper better? e.g.. he may want to play or something and he always gets a positive respond when he goes to the helper versus to a family member who may be tired and not satisfy him well enough. i think u can just let it be. whenever possible just spend more quality time with the child. there isn't a lot of problem actually. helpers are not forever, family members are. i had a helper looking after me almost all my life and i am ok w my parents