Gender Disappointment - Wanted A Boy But Expecting A Girl

Went for an ultrascan at 17 weeks and the gynae says the baby is healthy and we may be expecting a girl. I'm more than a little disappointed because I've been dreaming of having a little boy and this is honestly not what I'm expecting. Having growing up with two nieces and two nephews since they were babies, I have an overwhelming preference for boys. And I just can't help feeling disappointed that I'm now carrying a girl. My husband thinks it's silly and I should be glad that the baby is healthy and well. But I'm trying hard to come to terms with it. Somehow still holding on to hope that the baby will turn out to be a boy at the next ultrascan or even at the delivery room. Has anyone experienced gender Disappointment? How did u handle it?

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Having a child itself is already a blessing. Think of it that way ok! Don’t stress yourself over such trivial matter.

Gender doesn't matter, as long as baby is healthy.. think positive.. some wants baby but couldn't conceive

Don’t feel disappointed. Having a child with the love of your life is a blessing itself too :)

Too choosy instead of being grateful.

you should be thankful. there are people that wants to conceive but can’t.

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Cheer up, I agree that as Long as baby is well, it’s all that matters.

As long as baby is healthy and grow well, u r blessed

Is okay. Can try next one. Boy or girl is ok

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U will get over it when u see her.

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Can always try for the next one