Gender disappointment

I got pregnant after 10 yrs last I gave birth to a boy. My husband was hoping for another girl. As for me I don't mind any gender as long as my baby's healthy. Turns out our baby is a boy. My husband was disappointed but now he loves him more than he felt that way. Our boy have his sister's features, soft look and always people thought he is a girl when I always dress him up in blue. My family & my husband's side has a pattern. My side, eldest and youngest are boys. Whereas for my husband, eldest is always a girl and the youngest is a boy. Getting pregnant is a huge blessing. I will not even feel disappointed or sad for things that is out of my control. And, it's your husband's sperm that determines the baby's gender.

i only wanted 1 child due to my hubby age and i desperately wanted a boy. For my hubby he didnt mind as long as healthy..i was so dissapointed that i cried when i found out its a girl. My daughter turned out to be the biggest blessing..so loving n caring..now i pregnant with 2nd child by accident and guess what i praying for another girl! My friend who has a boy says she wishes for a girl cause her boy doesnt show any affection..Life is so funny sometimes, we always want what we dont hv.

Being able to conceive and have a healthy baby already is a blessing. There are many woman out there who wished so hard to be a mother but never had a chance. Being a mama of 3 girls, you are way lucky compared to many. Count your blessings and soon you will realize that gender is not the biggest concern. Chin up, keep smiling and have a happy baby!

I grew up with 2 sisters, so my parents had 3 girls like you (much to my father's dismay), but I can tell you from the daughter's perspective, sisters are the best thing a girl could ever have. I love my sisters so much and being girls, we can share about anything and everything and we will understand each other better.

Don't be disappointed and i know how you feel cause i also wanted a boy for my 1st pregnancy and once it comes to know the baby gende it is a girl i am disappointed and really wanted to cry but then after i gave birth to my baby girl

You can consider adopting or IVF, I heard it’s probably higher chance to get gender you desire. If natural conception, you have to go with the mindset that it’s a natural lottery, you cannot control the outcome.

I know.. I should be happy that my bb is healthy but just can't help feeling disappointed as won't be going for no 4 so tot a boy to close the chapter.

Hey Mama, There is hardly anything you can do to determine the gender of your baby. What’s most important is that she’s healthy and happy!

i try to be contented with my lot in life 💕