Feeling unloved..

Just want to vent out my feelings.. been with my partner for almost 4yrs.. and ngayon magkakababy na kami, I feel like hindi na nya ko mahal.. he’s not his usual self na.. hindi kami magkasama ngayon because of his line of work, we texted everyday pero since we found out na we’re having a baby he suddenly change, he never say i love you to me anymore.. pag magkausap kami over the phone, it felt a bit awkward na.. before he never fails to say i love you before we end our conversation he was even mad when i didnt respond to him when he’s saying that he loves me.. I already told him about it pero we always ended up fighting or madalas no response lang sya kaya now I just felt bad na I can really feel na nagbago na sya sakin.. Im starting to feel that this relationship is already going nowhere and I guess the reason he was staying is just really because of the baby.. I’m starting to feel depressed again.. currently on my 16th week of pregnancy and wala na ko halos ginawa kundi umiyak nalang ng umiyak kasi kahit sabihin ko yung sama ng loob ko sa kanya wala namang nagbabago.. :(

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I feel you sis, pero sometimes we should consider as well na yung partner natin ay marami nang iniisip how to sustain the need of you soon to be child. Naging ganyan din ako sis. Lagi ako naiyak. Iniisip ko na di na niya ako mahal. Pero di pala sis, masyado lang talaga tayo sensitive. Ang gawin mo. Talk to him on the right time. Yung pareho kayong relax, para di mauwi sa arguement ang usapan. And open mo lahat ng nararamdaman mo. 😊😊😊 magiging magaan din yan sis .

Magbasa pa

Been there momsh, I tried na maging okay pa. We've been together for almost 6 years, pangalawang baby na namen yung dinadala ko. Kahit na buntis pa ako, ganun padin. It ended up na panay away nalang until sinabe nyang its over. Two months na kameng hiwalay and ang hirap hirap talaga 😭

And Hindi niyo napagusapan n magka baby n in 4yrs time? Baka d pa Yun handa sa baby at d p siya ready to settle down.. gusto Niya bf gf lang Muna Hindi Muna next level. Dretsuhin mo n lng siya.. Kung d Niya kaya tanggapin baby better n akuin mo n hingan mo n lng sustento

Baka hindi pa sya ready na magkafamily kayo, baka iniisip nya paso sya as a father. Dapat pag usapan tlaga yan. Baka masyado ka lang din emotional since your pregnant sis. Magpray ka manghingi ka ng guidance kay God.

😭😭😭😭

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