Today my heart broke a little bit. It was my little ones first day of preschool and I brought my helper along to assist me. When we were ready to leave, my little one kept bawling away and would not let go of my helper and kept saying "ateh, don't leave me" (ateh is big Sister). I told my baby, ok, mumma can take time off from work and spend with you and she replied, no I want ateh to stay and play with me. I feel jealous and hurt that my baby prefers The Maid to me. Am I being unreasonable? I feel like changing maids.
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if your maid is the main caregiver, you should thank her rather than feel upset. this proves she genuine cares for your child and that's why your child choose her
after work spend more times with your little one, play games, feeding more bonding time. it great your helper & little ones can get along well.
Change yourself, lo will still get attached to main care taker. Ask yourself what is important