Those with no maid , no in law or parents help etc .. how do u n hubby split the housework between the two of u ? Is your hubby calculative / or not calculative ? as in if u can't do your housework cos u are sick or too exhausted from handling children or work, that he will help u clear some urgent ones even though that is not within his scope of housework that is agreed upon?

I am the calculative one. Cos I cook, I wash, I prepare the next day meal, I do laundry and sometimes, I need to teach my son homework too. So the things that he does daily is minimal. Just fetch the kids, shower them and pack their bags. So he better do what he is supposed to do everyday! He loves his job so much that the first thing after finishing dinner is to open his laptop and started typing right away. Always said he needs to reply emails to his big bosses. Well, as if he replies now his bosses will see lor. Sometimes when I'm so pissed off, I will ask him who is he trying to impress by working so hard every nite. Really can't stand it.