Marry or not?

It's good tt he wants to take responsibility now but to have him say he's still in contact with his ex gf and tt they'll 'love frm afar' will cause problems in the future for u. I have a friend who married out of responsibility and both actually has partners respectively. They had a mutual agreement tt the marriage is just for the baby till he reaches adulthood, and also so tt they cld buy a hse and appear like a normal family to others. It was ok for the first year, they still went out tgt with their son as a family despite their parents' resentment. They even took turns on weekends to go on dates with their bf/gfs. A mutual open relationship. But aft a year, things started to go awry cz the husband's gf wanted marriage. My friend on the other hand was also falling out with her bf, partly cz she started to have feelings again for her husband. She kept telling us how we're lucky tt our husbands love us etc. But she still continued with the marriage and got herself busy with work, travelling ard for business (alr broke up with her bf this time and husband still with his gf). Then CB came, and tt's when all hell breaks lose cz they both had to be confined at home tgt. Eventually they got divorce early this year as the husband decided to marry his gf. Luckily she got the custody of the boy as she's financially stable and her parents are willing to care for her son while she works. It's a tough decision for u to make now. Perhaps u want to try talking things out with a trusted friend first.