Kung may nag cheat sa inyo ng partner niyo, will you stay together for the kids or maghihiwalay kayo?

I'm in a situation where cheating really happens. Pwede ko iwanan at kaya ko hiwalayan pero hindi ko gagawin. Its not because I love him so much but because I am living in the reality of life where no matter what I do, my children will suffer and get affected. Marriage is like business, there's gain there's lost. I stayed in a lot of ups, happiness, winnings, so why can't I stay in our downs and sadness. Marriage is not all about good things, you don't expect that your whole time together will all be happy moments. So despite all the pain, I still want to risk it, I still want to gamble, I still want to fight for what I believe not just for my children but for myself too. I don't want to live a life with regrets and full of what ifs. And after all if it's not really going to work maybe that's the time I will choose to give up. Every family is worth fighting for.