Kung may nag cheat sa inyo ng partner niyo, will you stay together for the kids or maghihiwalay kayo?
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I'm in a situation where cheating really happens. Pwede ko iwanan at kaya ko hiwalayan pero hindi ko gagawin. Its not because I love him so much but because I am living in the reality of life where no matter what I do, my children will suffer and get affected. Marriage is like business, there's gain there's lost. I stayed in a lot of ups, happiness, winnings, so why can't I stay in our downs and sadness. Marriage is not all about good things, you don't expect that your whole time together will all be happy moments. So despite all the pain, I still want to risk it, I still want to gamble, I still want to fight for what I believe not just for my children but for myself too. I don't want to live a life with regrets and full of what ifs. And after all if it's not really going to work maybe that's the time I will choose to give up. Every family is worth fighting for.
Magbasa pait happened to me, nag stay ako.. 19 years na kami and the reason he cheated was wala raw akong time sa kanya and sinabi ko raw na hindi ko nakikita sa future ko na kasama siya which is true because we experienced physical abuse pero now hindi na but still may times na may verbal abuse pa rin, yon lang naman ang dahilan bakit ko nasabi na hindi ko nakikita na makakasama ko siya sa pagtanda namin. Now, pinili ko pa rin mag stay
Magbasa pamakikipaghiwalay ako, mapagbibigyan ko yung nauna pero kung may mga susunod pa hindi na. mas pipiliin ko na lang na kami na lang ng anak ko kaysa magkaroon ng asawang hindi ko mapagkakatiwalaan at panloloko lang ginagawa sakin. aanhin ko ang lalaking di tapat at di marunong makontento sa isang babae, mas mabuti pang maging single mom na lang kaysa mastress sa mga gaya nila
Magbasa paI will definitely cut ties for life. Mas okay nang di buo pamilya, kung wala na syang respeto sa pamilya na nabuo niyo. Hindi na worth it. Mas okay pang maging single mom na lang, at mag focus sa sarili and anak. Ang lalaki sa panahon ngayon, bihira na lang may kwenta. Focus on building yourself, like career, hobbies. Especially sa anak mo. Yun lang! 💗
Magbasa pabefore that,, let me tell yoy something.. ang cheating ay choice po yan..meron po tayong tinatawag na human flesh lahat nmn ata tayo naranasan iyan lalo n sa mga lalaki... natutukso pero ung tukso pwedi iwasan first isipin mo my pamilya k, at sila focus mo center si Lord. yan ang sabi ng asawa ko so bkit ko iisipinagcheat sya kung pwedi nmn nya iwasan..
Magbasa paI would say hiwalayan ko na pero when it happened, i was weak. I still married the guy and had our 2nd child. I was happy for having my 2nd yet regretted that i married my husband. The cheating issues he once did will always come up when we fight. It became a curse in my family.
Always remember cheating is a choice, and cheating is cheating on all of it's form may it be micro cheating or bluntly cheating, it will never be an accident or happened out of control.. And there will never be an acceptable reason for you to cheat ..
depende sa cheat na ginawa nya.. if may involve na babae makikipag hiwalay. hindi sya ma inlove or makakapag cheat ng gnun kong mahal nya ako lalo na ang pamilyang meron kami. sira ndn tiwala for sure, kaya malamang panay pag dududa na.
You can never justify CHEATING. If one decided to cheat, I'm done. I will never forgive kasi the moment they chose to cheat means they disrespect you and nothing can justify that.
mahirap na kasi ibalik ang tiwala e tipong makikisama ka sa isang bahay tapos wala kang peace of mind tipong paulit ulit babalik sayo ang pang lolokong ginawa nya.