Stay because of the kids or not

By the way there are many woman who regretted divorce because during divorce they fight for the care and control of the children and got it. Sadly when the dust settle, they regretted and suffer in silence because they assume sole responsibility of the child and have no time to find others. Worst because having a child, their pool of suitors reduce dramatically. It got worst when menopause set in and their children grew up. I personally know of a few couples that stayed in separate room to maintain the marriage for their kids and at their later years they stay together again. They are very happy now and learn to live with each other issues ;) Key thing is the relationship sour must not be toxic.