Most of the advise from mums are good, but I wish to caution 2 things.
1. Never talk about divorce to your husband unless you are ready to go through with it. (Same as don't point a gun at someone unless you are ready to fire)
2. Never wage war with your MIL, because she bring up your husband for 20~30 year. Is unlike he will side you on the long run.
Why I said the above? Because my wife did the above 2 and we are separated with 1 kid.
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